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Monthly Archives: October 2008
If you have decided that you won’t vote for President this year because all of the candidates are horribly bad, then I ask you to consider write-in candidate Shane Scott. He is 100% American for 98% of America. See what I mean here:
Find more Shane Scott for President videos on youtube under the username “shaneforamerica”.
I had an appointment to have a lunch meeting with some friends today. When I arrived at our chosen rendezvous point, one of the guys was nowhere to be found. He has a tendency to occasionally be flighty and forgetful. I found out that he just wasn’t coming to the meeting from one of the other guys. So, I called him to ride him hard about not showing up and not calling me to cancel the meeting (We really needed all of us there for the meeting to take place).
It wasn’t until after I hung up the phone that I found out the reason he could not be there. And without going into details (but just for context of how big a jerk I am), something seriously negative had happened in his life that was far more important than our little meeting. I immediately called back and left a message apologizing for the first message, but the horse was already out of the chicken coop. I often forget that other people have context to their lives that does not necessarily correlate with the context of my life.
I can’t help but think about politics in connection with this thought. People have contexts to their own lives that others may not ever be able to comprehend. I think this is where yelling and divisive political discourse has its roots. For example, I can’t understand how someone could cry over voting for someone, just not possible for me. And trust me, I can get pretty weepy. However, that person has obviously had a different experience in life that gives different context to that moment of voting.
We need to all remember that we are a vast and varied country with individually vast and varied life contexts. We have the great privilege of voting for our leaders. At the same time while having those disagreements of ideas, try to remember in your emails, conversations, and blog posts that we are also all neighbors and fellow citizens of a pretty great country (no matter the current circumstances) who each have our own context in life that informs our political decisions. Those don’t make us good or bad people, they just are what they are and make us who we are.
The quintessential adage about how life was so much harder for parents than their children is the “walking to school, up hill, both ways, in the snow (with numerous variations and additions) story”. But when I was a child, what impressed me more that any tales of having to walk anywhere was when I found out that my mom’s family didn’t have a television! What? No TV? I was flabbergasted. How did one survive without television?
My mom always had a way of surprising me with information about her life. Take for instance the time she let it slip that she not only did she know it was World Series season but she knew which teams were playing and who was leading in wins! Now, sports and my mother are about as foreign to each other as Donald Trump and a good haircut, so this revelation came as complete shock to me! Why would she know this?
It kind of went back to the TV thing. As I remember it, they did get to watch television, they just had walk (shocker!) to a neighbor’s house to do so. Most specifically, they would go to watch the World Series. She explained that ever since then she, out of habit, followed the World Series.
And pretty much ever since I learned that about her, I do to. I don’t care a lick about baseball any other time of year. But when the World Series begins, I may or may not watch the games, but I always know who is playing and what the win count is. (Phillies – 1, Rays – 1)
I wonder what things about my childhood would seem hard to my children? Is there anything about my life that they would find surprising?
*OK, may not everything but she did get the “ball” rolling!
In addition to life being the normal buzz of craziness and busyness and utter chaos, there are also times of bliss.
Last weekend, DB and I went to New Orleans to celebrate, albeit belatedly, our thirteenth wedding anniversary. Four days of just being together, enjoying food, music and culture was indeed, very blissful. You can see pictures from the trip on Flickr. Our best meal, by far, was at Nola’s. The beignets at Cafe Du Monde did not disappoint. We got to take a carriage ride tour of the French Quarter and we visited The Audobon Aquarium of the Americas. It was a very needed and very good trip.
Yesterday, after our traditional family jaunt to the pumpkin farm, I spent my day in the presence of so many talented, witty, intelligent, savvy, beautiful women. It was BlissDom ’08, the first conference held by BlissfullyDomestic.com! You may remember from some of my earlier ramblings, that is the online magazine that I am an editor and writer for. It was an incredible conference and so indulgent! Not only did I get to spend hours and hours with old and new friends but we were treated like queens! Great food, yummy drinks (including the now infamous Bliss-tini!), overflowing swag bags and amazing giveaways. Here’s a picture of me with the “Blissful Chicks” – some of the editors & writers and our fearless founder:
Many, many thanks to Alli & Karla and to the wonderful sponsors, Epson and One2One! It was truly a blissful event! And if you couldn’t come to BlissDom ’08, or if you’re just now hearing about BlissDom we’re doing it again in February so stay tuned for more details!!